A Word with the Pastor

A Catalyst for Connection

March 14, 2024

Last month Paul and I schlepped over the Santiam Pass to Suttle Lake Camp. Having safely arrived without donning the brand-new tire chains that sat in our trunk, we found what we trekked out to see: huge banks of snow and piles of snow-drenched youth from Christ Church and First Church.

We had arrived at the Winter Youth Retreat. Despite the chilly weather, we were surprised to receive a warm welcome as soon as we stepped out of the car. In the frosty cold sat our very own welcome sign, guiding these Suttle Lake newbies to the right building while snow obscured most other helpful landmarks and sense of the road.

It’s been a long while since I’ve had the chance to sit back and enjoy a retreat like this one. Paul and I were ‘bonus adults’ at the youth retreat, which meant that we had to behave, but were not responsible for planning programming or keeping folks in line.

It was glorious.

The slow, relaxed pace of connecting with others, knowing that we didn’t have to agree on and plan each meal, the persistent and gentle reminder to tune my spirit to the melody of God’s grace. There was space for time alone and together, space for seriousness and joy.


Spending a night at the youth retreat reminded me of why church retreats are so important to me as a pastor. On a week-to-week basis I don’t get to connect very deeply with most of the congregation. This is the same for many of you. This matters, because our relationships are the foundation of our call and our power as the body of Christ.


A church retreat is a catalyst for connection: with each other and with the Divine.


Little waves and hellos in between worship or at coffee hour are so much more meaningful after you’ve gone past the expected “Hi how are you- I’m good how are you” and actually know the person you’re talking with. You can wave at someone for years and not feel like you are part of the same community.


As I sat at a dinner table with youth from our church, learning so much more about and from them than I’d been able to while giving high fives in the hall on Sundays, I felt so grateful that after a pandemic hiatus, we are finally able to host an All Church Retreat this April (12-14!) at Camp Magruder.


The All Church Retreat is a way to jumpstart your relationships with folks in our community, take a sabbath breath, and tend to your soul. Luckily, there is still one more day of registration!


The All Church Retreat is a way to jumpstart your relationships with folks in our community, take a sabbath breath, and tend to your soul. Luckily, there is still one more day of registration! Sign up at: fumcpdx.org/renewal.

We’ll be waiting there to welcome you.

Peace,

Pastor Karyn

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